Did I Overreact? Please Answer!?
heey, thank you so much for reading this!
this guy who was in a bunch of my classes and stuff starting smiling at me, talking to me, joking around, even during my spare came and sat and talked to me, flirted and joked on msn for suree, we were kinda in different social groups, he ws popular. so every sign pointed that he may like me, and he was cute and seemed sweet and stuff. so me and my bf were talking and she convinced me to tell him, only she would tell him and pretend i didnt know she told him ( i know very kindergarten lmao) anyways so she texted him ( at 11;11 by accident haah) kinda just saying that she thought that i might like him or w/e and it was a cute text. so after a while, no response. so she was talking to him on msn and just casually brought up his phone and he sais he had lost it etc. so i kinda knew in a way it might not be true and he just didnt like me, which is fine but he was soo flirty, so my best guy friend decided to text him and tell him. so my bf said casually haha i think ___ might have like ya a bit, what do you think of her, and this is a quote he said” well, lets be honest – i’d do her, but i wouldnt date her” so he told me what he said on the phone and i had liked this guy for about 6 months. its not what he said, it was HOW he said it, i mean that is SO mean, he could have just said oh shes cool but no or something. anyway i cried alot lol, and then my my best girl friend (honestly without me knowing this time) msgd him and said that that was so mean to say etc. and now schools back in and that was months ago but i dont talk to him, he doesnt talk to me, but like opinions?
ps thanks for reading, i will def award 10 points to the best haha!!
omg, What a jerk,if any guy says that too a girl, than that guy might as well never exist. I mean he is one of those “Sly” guys that trys to act innocnt to get in a girls pants and then ends u p breaking their hearts, and hurting their feelings,Guys like that really piss me, off. But you will always know in the back of your head that he might never find love because of his childish behaviors, and for me that would be satisfying enough.
This is a guy with no class, or any respect for you, or even himself for that matter.
Next question is: Do you respect yourself?
If you do, you would not even speak to this creep again. If he knows that you know what he said, and you even say hello to him ever again, you are telling him that you are so desperate, you would talk to a guy who thinks of you as an object, not a person.