Love Or Friendship? Pleaseeeeee Help Me!!?
PLEASE HELP MEEE!! THIS IS WORTH READING:
Ok, so I have been friends with this guy since i was in kindergarten (im in 10th grade now). I have always had a crush on him <3 . He isn't the best looking guy but he has the most perfect blue eyes and he has a great personality. I don't care much for looks I look for personality. <3 anyways,,..my friends know that I like him and they were dropping hints to him (we are all mutual friends). soooo he started asking me who I like….he was persistent and stuff but I held my ground. eventually it got outa hand and I started getting annoyed so I just told him on IM. he kept asking me if i was free to hang out. I was worried cause he knew I liked him and it may be awkward sooo yea. eventually i hung out with him. it was normal surprisingly. then we hung out with a group of our friends. and after he left to go home, they told me that we were seriously flirting. –a few weeks later– at lunch he took my book bag to be annoying so i went to smack im with my folder and he grabbed the end and pushed me into the wall and tried to get it from me. this guy who sits with us was like "could you guys please stop flirting" he let go and sat back down.
i love him soooooooo much and he knows but dosent seem to care…
this "flirting" is it love or friendship? i dont actually know how to flirt….i just do i guess. he also tends to ignore our other friends when we are all hanging out and leans toward me……??
Do you think he <3 loves <3 me??
What are some signs that a guy loves/likes you??
feel free to ask for more info and come back and add on to your answer.
THANKS<3
He totally likes you. If he knows you like him, and he still wants to do things with you, he does. If he didn’t like you, after he found out you liked him, he would avoid you like the plague. He would be too uncomfortable to do casual things with you so, yes, it looks like he’s really into you!
But….he might not know how to react to it. I don’t think guys tell you they like you in the same way you would expect. Most don’t write long love letters, but they might try to get your attention (by grabbing your folder or things like that).
he is probably scared of dating you because if it ends badly it may mess up ur friendship. that or he considers you a sister, which is a very good thing
Yeah, he’ll definitely fall for you.
Honestly this sounds like me and my ex aha. I am a guy so it seems like I related to him a lot. If he’s never had a serious gf before then he’s new to this so he’ll learn along the way.
i think you are just flirting and he is not ready for a serious relationship just play along he may catch on
love.
lol r u serious u tell tha guy u like him he wants to hang out and u still question it…yall flirt people see that yall hang out wit wat more do u want it seems all the signs are there u should take them as they r go for it stop holding ur self back u dont want any regrets
If he was being so persistent then you would think he must like you, but it depends on his personality if he is jokey sort of person he could just be having you on, only you can tell that. From what you’ve written it seems as if you like him a lot so you shouldn’t torture yourself with restricting to friendship. Still if you do go out with him you need to understand that it will be almost impossible to go back to being just friends after a break-up.